BDSM Lexicon · Roles

Boytoy / Toyboy

Boytoy or Toyboy is a term used in BDSM and Femdom to describe a male submissive who, with consent, positions himself as a ‘toy’, ‘sexual plaything’ or possession of a dominant woman. The term does not refer to objectification without mutual consent, but to an agreed role within a power dynamic in which surrender, service and devotion are central.

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Related terms

• Mistress
• Dominant
• Sub
• Domina
• Femdom

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