BDSM Lexicon · Orgasm control

JOI

JOI stands for Jerk Off Instruction, a term used in BDSM and erotic contexts to refer to the guidance or control of masturbation by a Dominant. The submissive receives explicit instructions on what, when, and how to touch themselves, often combined with verbal dominance, control, or teasing.

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