BDSM Lexicon · Roles

Spankee

In BDSM, a spankee is the person who is spanked during spanking. The term is usually used as the counterpart to the spanker, the person who administers the spanking. A spankee can be submissive, male slave, female slave, bottom, or even a Dominant, depending on the dynamics and context of the play.

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Related terms

• Aftercare
• Spanking
• Discipline
• Punishment
• Surrender

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