BDSM Lexicon · Roles

TFTB - Topping from the Bottom

Topping from the Bottom (TFTB) is a term used in BDSM to describe a situation in which a sub attempts to influence or control the dynamic through behavior, words, or emotion, effectively taking the lead while formally remaining in the submissive role.

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Related terms

• Dominant
• Consent
• Sub
• D/s
• Surrender

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