BDSM Lexicon · Experience & emotions

Wringer

A wringer is a psychologically or emotionally intense BDSM game in which a submissive is deliberately taken through various emotional, physical, or mental layers. The goal is not to maximize pain, but to create an inner “wringing out” that leads to surrender, release, or deep transformation.

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Related terms

• Dominant
• Aftercare
• Fear
• Sub
• Humiliation

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